Kissing babies and pressing flesh.

We all "run for office" on occasion, meaning that we press the flesh, schmooze, stroke, kiss-ass, cajole, flatter and do gosh knows whatelse to attain our desires. We know that progress is more important than stagnation. Some of us do this better than others, and some refuse to do this because they believe that it would compromise their integrity. I'm sorry, but if you can't work a room then you can't work yourself. Social skills are so important in todays society. So many situations arise when a "herds mentality" is the driving social vibe and you have the choice, lead or follow. You can not properly lead, if you dont know how to communicate to all in the herd, including the smart, the slow, etc. Some people recognize authority, some quality, some humor, some just need a little tlc. If you can communicate quickly and succinctly you have a greater chance of moving the herd where you want them. A little grease goes a long way. Never forget this. Crowd control involves more than wooden horses and yellow tape.